LEARNING TO YIELD,
LEARNING TO TEACH
My esteemed
teacher ( through his books and generous
e-mail responses ), Walter Brueggemann, loves the word yield. I do, too. Where does yielding work in my life?
I try to yield to
my age (84 in June), and celebrate that
reaiity by a great deal of snoozing,
quitting outdoor work after forty minutes, sitting by the fire in sheer joy.
The ole fella said: Sometimes I sets and
thinks; and sometimes I just sets.
I try more and more to yield by
offering a quiet response to what others say.
My voluble responses of the past are not necessary today, nor are they
healthy for me or
for the other. A quiet response face to face can be a nod
and a warm smile; on the phone , “Yes! I
see. “ Such yielding moves us both!
I try to yield
to the weather, celebrating rain and
snow, heat and humidity, glorious blue
sky North Carolina days - without distinction.
All is grace.
I try to yield
to the joy of cooking and of dining
with friends. Yielding in this
case means taking time. Slow down, Jane, you move too fast!
I yield to my importunate cocker
spaniel’s big brown eyes staring at me exactly at five p.m., reminding me: It is dinner time!
I am trying to
yield to the relentless “buts” that
respond to a suggestion I make. It was only a suggestion. Thanks for
listening.
I see now that yielding, far from being a sign of weakness, is a sign of deep trust and strength. Jesus’ mother is reported to have said, as she
yielded to God: Be it done to me according to your Word. Later in the story, Jesus is said to have repeated his mother’s prayer, saying
in the garden,
“ Not my will, but thine, be done”.
What has all this got to do with teaching? What
you do speaks so loudly, I cannot hear what you are saying!
Thank you, Walter Brueggemann!